This blog is kept by Anziano Clay Lacey's family. The blog will include his general emails and pictures. Updates will be posted on Wednesdays after each new email is received. We hope you enjoy! (This is not an official site of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints)
Saturday, December 22, 2012
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Thursday, December 20, 2012
Hey guys!
I'm
glad everyone is doing well. I am so excited for the Skype call here in
a few days! It will be so great to see you all and to talk to you all! I
can't wait!
We have had a great week so far and we are working
our way towards Christmas! I am so excited! We have a surprising amount
of invites but we want to spend most of the time with non-members and
those in particular who do not have a family or someone to spend
Christmas with. We'll talk more about when we'll do the call, but it
will be Christmas Eve for sure.
This week has been somewhat peculiar in Siracusa
because since Thursday and ending today there has been the 'Festa di
Santa Lucia': St. Lucy is the patron saint here in Siracusa so there has
been a lot of festivities, processions, concerts, etc. It was neat
though because nearly everyone (or it seemed like everyone) in Siracusa
all gathered at the city center where they carried a gigantic beautiful
silver statue of this saint through the city from the cathedral to
another church that shares her name.
We said goodbye to Stefania on Friday and she is
really excited to be going to America. She wants to stop by in Apple
Valley and say 'hey' to you guys when she goes from L.A. to Vegas! I was
jealous that she might hug you guys before I do!!! We had a really nice
last visit with her and I'm thankful for the friendship that we have
made and that will continue. After our visit with her we were invited to
a presentation of a book relating to the problems and history of
Tibet.
Our investigator Giuseppe is doing well and making a
lot of progress! We have almost got him to church... But it is really
hard for him! Pazienza!
On Sunday we had a
miracle happen! A lady named Ida from English course showed up to
church! We had invited her awhile ago and then she had never came, but
then she randomly showed up and it went very well! She loved church so
much and was very interested in everything. Sunday night at five o'clock
we were waiting in church for an appointment with a contact that wasn't
coming, and then all of a sudden Ida showed up, asking questions about
the Book of Mormon I gave her in church a few hours before! We had a
great lesson with her (she even brought 2 friends) and I actually just
heard from her and we'll have a lesson with her tomorrow! Things look
very positive with her and I'm very excited!
Yesterday was a bit sad because we went to the
funeral of a less active'.s wife who passed away. He was very happy to
see us there, and it makes me feel content that we have already been
seeing him often so we have a great friendship that will be nurtured
especially during this difficult time for him. He is 87 years old so
this loss will be very tough on him but he seems to handling it well.
We sung carols at a convalescent home with the youth
and it was a great experience. I made it a goal to speak to and salute
every resident in that home and I'm glad I did because I talked to some
very beautiful people. One man that will celebrate his 100th birthday
tomorrow! One lady that reminded me of an Italian version of Grandma
Lacey said that I reminded her of one of her sons and she began crying
and clung unto my hand. It was such a beautiful little moment and I'm so
glad for little acts of service we have and to do things that the
Savior would do.
We have a few other appointments and I have to go!
We are really busy but I'll get back to you soon and let you know for
the Skype call! I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I
love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you
Greg! Have a great week! I'll talk to you on Monday!!!
Con affetto,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Another great week
Hey guys!
This has been another great week and things
are going great! We had our zone conference yesterday and it went very
well. I'm the oldest zone leader now in Sicily so I felt very under
pressure but it turned out well and we had a great time.
On Wednesday night us and the missionaries from
Catania got together here in Siracusa and saw the ballet, The
Nutcracker, for the first time! It was done by a famous Russian group so
it was way good and I really enjoyed it. President always jokes about
how missionaries have a 'missionary entertainment deficiency disorder' so
I was glad he approved it for us! We also get to watch two Disney or
Disney-like movies for Christmas. Any suggestions?
Our investigators are doing well. Stefania has been
coming to church regularly and reading from the Book of Mormon daily.
Unfortunately she is leaving this week on Sunday and she's probably
going to live in America and find work there. I'm happy for her and for
this new opportunity in her life but I'll miss her! She will be living
in California and she said that on her way to Vegas she might stop by
and say hey to you guys!
We have been working a lot with less-actives and one
is starting to come back to church! Another came to church on Sunday
and we had a nice visit with her and her family on Monday night. Two of
her children aren't baptized yet so we are hoping that we can begin to
work with them and help this family out! We have already received three
invites for Christmas so we might have a fun and busy day!
We were invited to go to an activity at a Catholic
church for a program for youth uniting the world. It was a project for
young adults from 17-30 and we had the opportunity to speak at it and
get to know a lot of youth around Sicily and even have a lot that will
go to various English courses that missionaries do throughout the
island. It was a great experience!
I'll just make a small mention: I hit 18 months in the mission on Saturday I just realized... crazy!!!
We
had a lunch invite after church and this member brought one of her
friends and we had a great afternoon with him, and after our spiritual
thought he said he might be interested to take the lessons. He is a very
nice man from Argentina and he's already come to church a few times and
to the family home evenings in church. That night we all went together
to see the First Presidency Christmas devotional and he really enjoyed
it.
Like I said, the conference went well. It was
obviously Christmas themed, and every missionary in Italy got the same
tie. It is really nice and I'll send the group picture of all of our
zone wearing it when I get it! My training was on finding work and we
had a great time demonstrating different finding techniques but most of
all using this Christmas season as an advantage to try and find new
investigators and to profit out of these many visits we'll have with
members to try to get referrals. The things that stressed me out the
most was getting things prepared for lunch to feed 40 people, and in the
end it all worked out except the fact that I didn't tell anyone to
bring a knife to cut the honey baked ham, so you can imagine the funny
scene of us sawing away at a giant ham with plastic forks! Other than
that it turned out perfectly though.
I love you all so much! Thank you for your prayers
and support with everything. I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you
Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg! I
can't wait to give you a call here soon! Have a great week and stay
safe! Love you!!!
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
A Roma di nuovo!
Hey guys! I'm glad everyone is doing good! Thank you for the encouraging
words and the prayers throughout the week. I love you all so much!
Anziano Clay Lacey
This
has been a bit of a crazy week because of traveling to Rome, zone
leader conference, and traveling back. I had one of the craziest travel
opportunities taking every form of transportation except bicycle and
horseback. We left for Catania on Wednesday and ate lunch there with the
other missionaries, then we took the bus again up to Messina where
there was a lot of wind and a storm so the small boat we took across the
Messina straight was rocked across the sea like crazy! When we finally
got across we landed in Villa San Giovanni and then took a train to
Reggio Calabria where we ate a pizza with the Anziani there and then
finally got some sleep at their place. We woke up early, got a ride from
a member to the airport and flew all the way to Rome. It was very, very
cold and rainy, but I love flying so much and enjoyed every minute of
it.
When in Rome we waited for the other Sicilian Z.L.'s
but there was a problem with Anziano Nelson from Sardegna who needed to
bring some luggage for a different missionary. The machine that unloads
the plane broke apparently so we had to wait an extra hour at the
airport. They told us to take the train from the airport to the city
center instead of being picked up in the van because the gate to the
mission home was broken and couldn't open, so the vehicles inside were
impossible to take out except by complete annihilation of the gate (you
should see the size of the mission van... it's called a 'furgone' in
Italian).
The airport is only about an hour by car from the
mission home (Rome is gigantic), and the little train would only be
about a fifteen minute ride. Usually, at the end of the month (and we
were in the latter days) missionaries are generally out of money. The
train tickets would have cost £70 for all of us! It was ridiculous so we
called the assistants and we worked it out to get a ride from other
missionaries with cars. Because of the weather, everyone was late to the
mission home, but although all the problems we faced and the stress of
travel, we were all happy to enjoy each others company and we ate a
delicious lunch prepared by Sister Kelly.
The conference was great and we had some great
discussions regarding the work and things we need to do to improve the
zones. President leaves a little bit of time at the end to ask questions
about anything we want (it is titled 'trunk talk') that usually
involves deep doctrine and marriage, and other after mission subjects.
The funniest one I heard was a missionary who asked if there was
something different we needed to do for the 21st of this month.
President was very confused and asked, "Is that that Mayan calender
thing?" The way he said it was hilarious and you have to know Pres and
his sense of humor! It was a much needed conference and we found out
that there will be a general authority that will visit our mission in
January! I can't wait to find out who it will be!
Our zone conference will be next week on Tuesday so we have a lot to do to get prepared.
We
returned to Siracusa doing the exact same trip we made before that took
up nearly the whole day. The best part about traveling though was
meeting and talking to people. I find such great pleasure in talking and
meeting new people as we go around. One of the ladies I talked to while
going to Catania became a new investigator on Monday! She, Gabriella,
was very interested in the Church and she is really searching the truth
as she goes and researches other churches. Her faith in Christ has grown
exponentially throughout the past couple of years because of the help
and comfort she's received while her twelve year old son was found to
have a brain tumor. Now everything is well, but hearing her recount her
experiences and love of God as she was in tears was very touching. She
said she looks forward to coming to church!
I'm out of time but that's basically the sum up of
the week! Things are going great and I can't wait to soak up yet another
Christmas in Italy. I know it will be a fantastic experience! I love
you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I
love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have a great
week and stay safe and strong! Che Dio vi benedica! Vi voglio tanto
bene. Un abbraccio forte!
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Hey guys! How's it going???
I'm very glad that everyone is doing well! Thank you so much for your emails and encouraging words of support and love!
Things
are still moving along great here in Siracusa and I love the people and the city. I might have to be quick today because we
are leaving Sicily for a bit to go to Reggio Calabria where I'll take a
plane tomorrow morning for Rome. I am really excited and it should be a
great conference like usual.
This week has been fantastic and rather busy, but
productive. We have been working really hard to find new investigators,
but it seems like it's been a bit of a tough spot for everyone in the
zone. It will pass and we'll keep going on diligently!
Anziano Smit had a little tooth problem so we had to
go to Catania on Thanksgiving because there is a dentist there that the
Church really trusts. We might have to go back again, but it looks like
everything is okay. For English course we had a little party to
celebrate Thanksgiving with all the English course students and we had a
great time. We bought pizza and everyone else brought snacks, drinks,
and desert. We have some amazing people come to our courses and I love
them so much! This older man who comes frequently was so excited to
introduce me to his wife and she talked about how much he loves us and
enjoys our company. I would love to teach English as a job; I find a lot
of pleasure in it!
We have also been also meeting with our bishop
often, and coordinating the work together has gone well.b
Sunday was a lot of fun. On Saturday there was a
'SuperSabato' event for the youth where all the youth in Sicily came to
Siracusa. They stayed the night and I was asked to teach a class in
church for all the priests about mission preparation. We did sacrament
with them and we all had a lot of fun. We ate lunch with all of them and
I made a ton of new friends with the youth all over Sicily.
Italy has changed some laws around and has made it a
little more difficult to get the residence permits, and on Monday we
had this appointment for Anziano Smit. This tall young man walked in and
I knew right away that he wasn't Italian. As he was going through the
process I heard him say, "This is so boring" and I asked where he was
from. He said North Carolina and he is a high school junior on a study
abroad program. On our way back from Catania on Thursday we met all the
rest of the kids in his program from all over the U.S. and we had a fun
time chatting. These girls said that they are going to buy me a bunch of
American stuff from the American base in Catania so I can't wait to get
some Starbursts and root beer. I haven't had root beer since the MTC!
Italians think it's gross unfortunately.. Anyways we asked this guy,
Isaac, if he wanted to go get a pizza sometime and he glady excepted and
then said that he would really like to know more about the church too. I
guess the recent presidential elections have sparked some interest.
Yesterday was an amazing day. We went to a spot
where we found out lived a bunch of less-actives, and we began
searching. We had some luck and some return appointments, and as we
walked near the sea I saw the strangest thing ever. It looked like a
giant boat that was sinking near the coast. Not believing my eyes we
decided to go see what it was, and in fact, it was a boat that ten
months or so earlier had crashed into a cliff on the coastline during a
storm. It was one of the craziest things I've ever seen. It was very
random and we found it by chance. It is a little hard to miss, I guess
you could say, but in a remote part of town.
Last night we had another great English course and
had fun doing role play, and we had a special family home evening.
Usually there is a spiritual thought, and then a game. Our ward mission
leader, Christian, the week before asked Giovanna if she'd like to share
something, and she was so happy to be involved. She gave one of the
best spiritual thoughts ever, and everyone was really touched by the
things she shared.
I love you all so much! I hope I can do something
fun in Rome and take a great picture. Speaking of pictures you all
looked so beautiful in the family pictures! Thank you so much for
including me in there! I love you! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I
love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you
Greg. Have a great week! Vi voglio un sacco di bene!
Un abbraccio forte!
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Good Morning!
Buongiorno tutti!
Hey guys how are you doing? I'm am
doing very well here in Siracusa and I'm enjoying so much my time here.
I'm glad I'll be here for Christmas to be with these great friends for
my last Christmas away from home. This has been another fantastic week!
Lately I've been choosing different Scriptures as themes for each
transfer and for this one I picked John 8: 31-32. I think the words are
so powerful when Christ says "...the truth will make you free."
On Wednesday night this lady from Salt Lake came to
Siracusa because the Church is continuing the Bible videos of the New
Testament and they want to do a lot of filming here in Sicily near
Trapani. There were a lot of people who came to audition, including
non-members, so we had a great opportunity to talk to those who had
questions about the church. It's funny though because there are a ton of
members in the ward who have been growing out their beards to play
these roles so it is very strange to see them in sacrament meeting. It's
like we are going back to the times when everyone had beards! I had the
chance to talk to this lady from Salt Lake about the church's film
program and she gave me some great advice and some numbers and emails of
people I can call when I'll start thinking about these things.
Since Sorella Rosato, who is serving in Catania,
needed to wait for her new companion to come down to the island, she had
been with the sisters here in Siracusa. She is from northern Italy and
she is one of the funniest people alive! We had so much fun, especially
when we all ate together and she did an 'intense' language study with
us.
Investigators are doing well and we did pretty well
with teaching the last week, especially with members present. Riccardo
came to church for the first time so that went well. We had a historic
stake conference here in Sicily because it was the first time that they
did the conference through live broadcasting. They held the conference
in Catania and other major churches around the island received the
transmission. It went very well and there weren't many technical
difficulties like sometimes you could imagine with those kinds of
things.
Giuseppe has also been doing very well and is making
progress. The only bummer is that he hasn't come to church yet.
According to me that is the only thing that is keeping him from
receiving the answer he needs. A young adult in our ward who served a
mission, Fabio, came with us to the last lesson and it went very well.
We had a kneeling prayer at the end, and I find that those are
more powerful.
Stefania and Giovanna are both also doing very well
and Stefania has been reading frequently still in the Book of Mormon.
Our main focus this transfer is getting referrals, and I might have
mentioned that in an earlier email, but it's been great as we've visited
members and less actives, give them materials, and find those who are
searching the truth.
I had a cool experience on Monday. We randomly got a
phone call from a young man in our ward and he asked if he could see us
during lunch, so we met him at a bar (again, Italian bars aren't like
American one's). We met him, asked what he needed, and he just wanted to
spend time with us. You can tell that he is a little troubled, and it
must be tough being the only member of the church in an entire high
school. We ate, hung out during our lunch break time, and had a nice
visit altogether as he asked us questions about the mission. Little
things like that are so special because I can help someone in a small
way just by being a friend.
Anziano Smit is doing so well! Last night he gave a
whole spiritual thought by himself at the family home evening, and
everyone is really impressed with how fast he has been learning the
language. He has been doing great and we have a lot of fun together!
In the end things are good and we are working hard
to find new investigators. We are going to really use this Christmas
season to invite others to really bring Christ into their lives. I love
you all so much! Thank you for your prayers and all the help and support
you give me! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love
you Brooke, I love you Heather, I love you Greg. Have a great week! Un
abbraccio! Vi voglio bene!!!
Con affetto,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Sarò a Siracusa per Natale!
Hey guys!
This has been another great
week as usual. Even though it's been a little up and down, there are
always positive and beautiful things we can find in life, right? First
off, we got the transfer calls on Saturday and everyone in Siracusa is
staying! That means I'll be here for sure for Christmas and I couldn't
be more happy about that! I love Siracusa!
Unfortunately we're not able to teacher Sabrina and her family anymore. Her husband is opposed to the church and the fact that she
wanted to be baptized so there was quite a mess for the member family
we were teaching her with. It is really sad and discouraging because her
and her son have such a strong desire to be baptized, but we need to
just continue to pray for them and have patience and everything will
turn out alright.
Things are going great with other investigators and
it's cool to see that most of them were found thanks to English course.
We try to teach them before and after so usually our Tuesdays and
Thursdays are pretty busy but I enjoy it so much. We had a fun time
playing the 'murder mystery' game. Some people really got into it and
dressed up, so that made things more fun.
We've been focusing a lot more on getting referrals.
It is definitely the best way to get new investigators and we have need
of some right now! It's interesting to see that in the back of Preach
My Gospel the only point that is in bold is the part that says that we
must ask for referrals from everyone. We have great members here and they
are doing a great job with sharing the gospel with friends, especially a
few families in particular.
There is a member whose wife is not active and a
little against the church. He has a fifteen year old daughter and an
eight year old son, but the wife won't let them be baptized. This member
is absolutely an amazing man and we've made a great friendship. We are
working together to really help his family in general so that they can
all have the same vision together.
There is another great member that is from Africa
and doesn't know how to read Italian. She is a single mother of five and
we all have so much fun together when we go visit. She just went
through the temple for the first time and our stake president gave her a
few things to study so we are helping her study that to understand
better the importance of the temple. It makes me miss the temple so much
more!
When talking with people and doing finding work we
have really been focused on discussing with everyone the importance of
the family, and even sharing the principle of family home evening. We
have found some pretty good success with that and we are determined to
find another family to teach. We have been getting close so it's bound
to happen soon! I'm hopeful!
I think I've mentioned this before but I'm trying to
really dive down into the Sicilian culture and I love it so much. I
especially love their accent and so I try to copy the way they say
things. We were invited to see a Siracusano puppet show that is a huge
cultural tradition. It was so much fun and amazing to see the talent
that the puppeteers have to make the puppets move like real actors.
I know that this is very random and strange, but I
bought a ukulele. I think Morgan's picture in Hawaii inspired me a bit,
so every week on p-day for the next seven months I'm going to put a
little bit of effort into learning how to play it! We'll see how it
goes!
I can't believe it's almost Christmas! It's going to
be so much fun when we can talk! I love and miss you all so much. I
love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I
love you Heather, I love you Greg. Have a great week! Let me know if you
need anything. Vi voglio tanto tanto bene! Ci sentiamo presto! Buona
settimana!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Una bella giornata a Noto!
Hey guys!
This has been another great week and I love Siracusa so much. I'd be cool staying here the rest of my mission. I love everything about it, the people, the environment, everything. Things have been really great though.
The Conforto family in our ward has twins, Riccardo and Andrea who just turned 14. The parents wanted to throw a Halloween themed party, so we helped them decorate and get everything prepared. We were invited to come on Thursday night and we even had an investigator, another guy named Riccardo, come and get to know the members. We had a lot of fun and they made me in charge of the games. We did the one where you put a piece of gum on a plate, and then cover it with flour and everyone needs to dig around in their own respective plates to find the gum, chew it, and then blow a bubble. It was pretty hilarious!
On Saturday we went up to Catania where I did my first baptismal interview! It was a great experience and I learned a lot from it. The candidate is very well prepared and ready for his baptism that will take place this week. It made me happy to see the joy in his face when I told him that he was ready.
Okay, the girls might kill me again for this one: We met with Giovanna again, and then after she invited us out to eat some sandwiches. Well, I love to dive down into the culture within different cities, and apparently horse meat sandwich is a Siracusano specialty, therefore I ate horse again, and it was great. I really enjoy horse meat! You're going to need to hide the horses from me when I come home! I might get hungry.
I got an amazing phone call from the Anziani in Bitonto. I think I might have mentioned it, but when I went up to Rome to go pick up Anziano Smit and everyone else heading down to Sicily, I talked to a man, Salvatore, and got his number and gave it to the Anziani living near his city. Well they called me and said that he now has a baptismal date for December! I am really excited for him!
I started a trend on Sunday. I went up to share my testimony in Sacrament meeting, and I spoke of a man I met in Sardegna that didn't have family, work, nearly nothing, yet anytime I asked how he was doing he replied, "Benone!" and was always very happy. I had never heard that word before and I searched dictionaries trying to find it to know what it meant. Being rather new in the mission I didn't know much about a grammatical trick you can use to add words onto adjectives to make them more enhanced. Well 'benone' means 'very good' and the fact that he always was positive no matter what really has stood out to me throughout my mission. I shared this with the members and how me need to always be examples, even in being positive and cheerful despite trails and difficulties. After that, whenever I talk to some members and ask how they are, they always reply. 'benone!' with a smile. I like this new little joke, and I think it's starting to liven people up a bit!
We had several dinner appointments this week, including one with the stake president of Sicily! We had a great time with them and he gave us some great advice about what we can do to strengthen members.
Probably the highlight of the week has been our experiences with a new great friend and investigator named Stefania. She comes to English course because she is getting ready to go to California for three months, so she wants to improve her English even though she already speaks great. She came to church on Sunday and the members were all very welcoming. We did a lesson with her and then another one before English course last night and she's already moving right along in The Book of Mormon being in the third chapter! As a little joke and to make people laugh I am learning a little bit of the dialect, Siciliano, so I say random phrases in dialect to put a smile on some one's face as they see a pathetic American trying to speak their native language! Stefania is so nice and bought me a Sicilian grammar book!
English course is going very well and we have so many students that show up. As a fun little activity we will play a 'murder mystery dinner party game' to help them do some problem solving, thinking, and conversation all in English. They are all coming dressed up or disguised as new people, and we will all play parts and figure out 'who the murderer is'. I think I might go as Leonardo DiCaprio! Haha
Today we had a fun p-day with all the missionaries in Siracusa, Ragusa, and Gela, and we went to a beautiful little city just south of Siracusa called Noto. We explored all the antique churches, historical sites, and in the end just enjoyed each other's company since it's likely that Anziano Green and Sorella Dall might be getting booted off the island!
I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have a great week! Vi voglio un sacco di bene!
Anziano Clay Lacey
This has been another great week and I love Siracusa so much. I'd be cool staying here the rest of my mission. I love everything about it, the people, the environment, everything. Things have been really great though.
The Conforto family in our ward has twins, Riccardo and Andrea who just turned 14. The parents wanted to throw a Halloween themed party, so we helped them decorate and get everything prepared. We were invited to come on Thursday night and we even had an investigator, another guy named Riccardo, come and get to know the members. We had a lot of fun and they made me in charge of the games. We did the one where you put a piece of gum on a plate, and then cover it with flour and everyone needs to dig around in their own respective plates to find the gum, chew it, and then blow a bubble. It was pretty hilarious!
On Saturday we went up to Catania where I did my first baptismal interview! It was a great experience and I learned a lot from it. The candidate is very well prepared and ready for his baptism that will take place this week. It made me happy to see the joy in his face when I told him that he was ready.
Okay, the girls might kill me again for this one: We met with Giovanna again, and then after she invited us out to eat some sandwiches. Well, I love to dive down into the culture within different cities, and apparently horse meat sandwich is a Siracusano specialty, therefore I ate horse again, and it was great. I really enjoy horse meat! You're going to need to hide the horses from me when I come home! I might get hungry.
I got an amazing phone call from the Anziani in Bitonto. I think I might have mentioned it, but when I went up to Rome to go pick up Anziano Smit and everyone else heading down to Sicily, I talked to a man, Salvatore, and got his number and gave it to the Anziani living near his city. Well they called me and said that he now has a baptismal date for December! I am really excited for him!
I started a trend on Sunday. I went up to share my testimony in Sacrament meeting, and I spoke of a man I met in Sardegna that didn't have family, work, nearly nothing, yet anytime I asked how he was doing he replied, "Benone!" and was always very happy. I had never heard that word before and I searched dictionaries trying to find it to know what it meant. Being rather new in the mission I didn't know much about a grammatical trick you can use to add words onto adjectives to make them more enhanced. Well 'benone' means 'very good' and the fact that he always was positive no matter what really has stood out to me throughout my mission. I shared this with the members and how me need to always be examples, even in being positive and cheerful despite trails and difficulties. After that, whenever I talk to some members and ask how they are, they always reply. 'benone!' with a smile. I like this new little joke, and I think it's starting to liven people up a bit!
We had several dinner appointments this week, including one with the stake president of Sicily! We had a great time with them and he gave us some great advice about what we can do to strengthen members.
Probably the highlight of the week has been our experiences with a new great friend and investigator named Stefania. She comes to English course because she is getting ready to go to California for three months, so she wants to improve her English even though she already speaks great. She came to church on Sunday and the members were all very welcoming. We did a lesson with her and then another one before English course last night and she's already moving right along in The Book of Mormon being in the third chapter! As a little joke and to make people laugh I am learning a little bit of the dialect, Siciliano, so I say random phrases in dialect to put a smile on some one's face as they see a pathetic American trying to speak their native language! Stefania is so nice and bought me a Sicilian grammar book!
English course is going very well and we have so many students that show up. As a fun little activity we will play a 'murder mystery dinner party game' to help them do some problem solving, thinking, and conversation all in English. They are all coming dressed up or disguised as new people, and we will all play parts and figure out 'who the murderer is'. I think I might go as Leonardo DiCaprio! Haha
Today we had a fun p-day with all the missionaries in Siracusa, Ragusa, and Gela, and we went to a beautiful little city just south of Siracusa called Noto. We explored all the antique churches, historical sites, and in the end just enjoyed each other's company since it's likely that Anziano Green and Sorella Dall might be getting booted off the island!
I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have a great week! Vi voglio un sacco di bene!
Un abbraccio,
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Happy Halloween!
Hey guys!
Thanks for the awesome emails and I'm glad that everyone is doing well!
This
has been a great and busy week. Although we had to hurry things up,
especially in preparation for the trainings, zone conference went well.
President is such an inspired man and he knows everything we as
missionaries need to hear in order to be more prepared and overcome our
challenges. Little things I've heard in this conference, sacrament
meeting, and other things people have been saying have really been
helping me realize things we can do for our investigators and it's
wonderful to see how the Spirit really helps inspire our thoughts.
We've been finding recent success with two families
through genealogy work. They have been so impressed with the
organization of the church that we've set some more appointments for
this week to talk about our beliefs so we are hoping that they become
new investigators.
Unfortunately we haven't yet met with Sabrina and
Christian because of zone conference and the Scamporrino family went out
of town and are visiting family in Venice. We are still really excited
to see them and help them grow closer to God.
Oscar Reali is a ward member here who has been such a
huge support and help with missionary work. Like I said before he
received his mission call to Manchester, England, and we've had a great
week with him and the members as we've said goodbye. It has helped me to
remember the same emotions and excitement that I felt as I prepared to
leave. We had a family home evening with a good half of the ward there
where we said 'goodbye' all together and then this morning we came here
early to church where we said goodbye after he was set apart. He has
been such a great friend and I'm going to miss him but I know that the
fact that he is serving will be a huge blessing for the ward and most of
all for his family.
On Saturday we had a great lesson with Giovanna from
English course. She is such a great person and was very open to hear
the message of the Restoration. The Spirit was very strong in the
lesson and we could tell that she felt it. We finished the lesson with a
kneeling prayer that she offered that was very powerful. She works in
humanitarian aid and goes around the world with her work and is
seriously one of the coolest people I've ever met. She is one of my best
of friends here in Siracusa. There was an Ensign or Liahona article
that spoke of sharing the Gospel by sharing yourself which really stuck
out to me. It also came up in a great talk that a member gave in
sacrament meeting. One thing that I am loving so much about the mission
are the friendships I'm making. For example, Giovanna with her family
and friends took me and Anziano Smit out to see a piano concert which
was great! These friendships I'm making all over the country are one of
my greatest treasures of the mission. I still hear from friends in
Sardegna which makes me grateful that Italy is now officially a big part
of my life.
Speaking of the piano concert, I am either really
deprived in entertainment, or I just discovered that I absolutely love
the piano. During the mission I've been learning the piano a bit and can
somewhat play a few hymns.
We have been visiting a lot of member families and
we received a random invite from a brother who is the only member in his
family. We had a great lunch with him, his wife, and their nineteen
year old son, and they all really enjoyed the spiritual thought at the
end. Who knows, maybe something will spark like is did with Ignazio
Mazzone back in Olbia!
Okay, funny story real quick: Giuseppe, one of our
investigators who is making slow, yet important progress invited us out
to eat pizza at a fancy restaurant in the middle of Ortigia close to the
Duomo. As we were walking back there was a group of three guys with
their dirty, shaggy dogs that are homeless playing a drum and guitar.
Giuseppe knows one of them because he helped him get to rehab a few
weeks ago (they get drunk, play, and wait for people to give them
money). Anyways, as Giuseppe was talking to them, one of the dogs peed
on the slope of the sidewalk they were sitting on and it started flowing
down towards us... like a river. We dogged the incoming liquid, it went
past us and then formed into a large puddle a few feet away from us
(there was a lot and it was a big dog). By this time we had joined the
conversation and we turned around later to find a group of loud, vulgar
young ladies gathered in that very puddle, jumping around, joking and
goofing around, probably waiting for their boyfriends. I turned to my
companion and said, "Should we tell them?" Just then a girl realized
that her feet were wet, looked at the puddle, and then followed it all
the way up to where the dog was. When things 'clicked' she screamed in
disgust. It was a real mess when all the girls found out and me and
Anziano Smit couldn't help but die of laughter when they had ran off.
I love the mission! It makes you laugh hard, along
with all those spiritual moments too! I love you all so much! I love you
Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you
Heather, I love you Greg. Have a great week! I love you all so much!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Cara Famiglia
Hey guys! Buongiorno!
It has been another great week here in Siracusa!
Wednesday night of last week we made it to Trapani, slept there, and in
the morning I got my Permesso di Soggiorno (residence permit), and we
headed straight back. About ten hours of bus riding all for a fifteen
minute process! But my Permesso is good for another two years so I can
extend my mission for a third year and still be legal if I wanted!
The best part about the trip was seeing Sergio
Valenti, the man who I was teaching and got baptized a week after I had
left. I called him and we organized for a small moment to meet when I
had arrived Wednesday night. We were so happy to see each other and I
can't begin to describe the change that I saw in him. He is 100x more
happy, and seemed like a new, more improved version of himself. He
loves the Gospel so much and he openly acknowledges the change that it
had made in his life. He loves the church and now he's preparing to
enter the temple. There is nothing better than having someone
legitimately thank you, and say humbly: I love you.
I saw other friends from Trapani just walking around
the city, and I even stopped by an old investigator's house who was a
tailor for Armani suits and is super rich. The branch president even
came to find me as I waited for the government office to open to take my
Permesso. It was a very nice trip in the end!
We went to Lentini, a city about 45 minutes outside
of Siracusa where we set up an appointment with Sabrina, the cousin of a
member who we gave the blessing to. We met at this member family's
home, the Scamporrino's, and we waited for Sabrina. It was forty-five
minutes past the time she was supposed to come, and the Scamporrino's
were scared that she wasn't going to come. As they left the living room
frantically calling her and failing to get a hold of her. When they
left I quickly folded my arms, bowed my head and prayed hard that she
would be able to make it! Literally when I said, "Amen" they came back
and said, "She's here!"
Sabrina was so excited to see us and we had a great
introductory lesson with her. Unfortunately her son Christian was at
school so he couldn't make it, but we had a very spiritually powerful
lesson and we invited her to be baptized on December 1st as a goal, and
she accepted it if she would be ready, and she wants to be baptized with
her children. She has been very impressed with the church and loves the
members. After the lesson we went to the train station and waited there
for awhile. The ticket machine was broken, and there was no way for us
to buy tickets because we didn't have cash, so we were in a panic! We
went to a bar to buy tickets, and they didn't accept cards and there
wasn't an ATM anywhere close, so we were concerned because we had to get
home for more appointments. The bartender was very nice and gave us the
tickets anyways! It was one of the nicest gestures ever, and this week
when we go back we will pay him back for sure. As we waited at the
station, Sabrina came with Christian because he wanted to at least say
hi to us before we left. He is such a great kid and I can't wait to
teach him!
This week has been crazy because zone conference
will be held on Friday instead of November 6th, so me and the other ZL's
have been rushing to get things done, especially things regarding our
trainings that we need to give, and organizing everything else. I guess
the airport in Catania will be closed during November so we have to get
things done right away! Me and Anziano Davis have prepared a great theme
though, and we'll get together in Catania tomorrow night to put it all
together.
Church was great and we had two investigators come.
One of them, Giovanna, has been coming frequently to English course and
has shown a lot of interest in the Church. She has been asking a lot of
questions, especially after the spiritual thoughts in English course,
and last night was her second time at the Family Home Evening the ward
puts on and she loves it and she's making great friends with the
members. We are praying and working hard for her too, and she is really a
great friend to everyone.
I finally met an Italian guy with the name of Ezio! A
Russian tourist that is living in Malta stopped us and wanted to talk
to us because she lived in Provo with a friend for a little while. She
was with another Russian friend, and also with this Ezio guy that is
living in Malta to improve his English. It was really funny and we got
their number to give to the Malta missionaries as referrals.
This week has been great! Crazy, but great! The work
is really stepping up and the members are noticing that we are trying
our best. Things are going great and everything looks positive as we
help investigators, especially with Sabrina and
her family.
I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you
Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I
love you Greg. Have a great week! I'll talk to you soon!
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Arrivederci Roma!
Hey guys!
Things are doing great here! It feels like
things are getting very busy and that I'm doing a lot of traveling, but
hopefully things will settle down a bit and I can focus entirely on
missionary work. For example, today we leave for Trapani! I have to go
back to get my Permesso di Soggiorno which allows me to live in the
country. After picking it up I'll be good for the rest of my mission and
won't have to worry about it anymore. I'm just bummed that it's going
to take up a whole day for travels!
Rome Temple - 10/12/12 |
Rome was great! Everything went smoothly with
getting there and I had a blast. The only thing I saw in Rome besides
the mission home was the temple, and it's getting so big! When I was at
the very site over a year ago there was just a giant hole, and now it's
on it's way to getting finished!
Luke and Lacey |
The zone leader council was a very uplifting
experience and it was a day full of learning. I met some amazing
missionaries that I didn't know before and we all had so much fun
together. I learned a lot from President and he is such an inspired man.
Us Sicilian guys were the first to get to the Villa so I got my
interview with President and got to help Sorella Kelly cook some
delicious food for lunch and dinner. I was on onion cutting duty, and
she had fun laughing as I cut the juiciest onions in the world and cried
like a baby. We decided that we are going to make a television show
called 'Cooking with Sister Kelly' because you 'feel the Spirit' so
strong that it brings you to tears.
Anziano Lacey with President and Sister Kelly |
The only part that wasn't fun about the trip was
almost missing the plane thanks to insane traffic on the freeway, the aftermath of a man being hit by a bus, which we saw...
Not very fun.
Friday night we had a very fun activity with the
ward that was a scripture jeopardy game. I was called a few weeks before
to be the team captain and everyone made fun of me for the name I
chose:
Mahershalalhashbaz (a Hebrew word that means 'destruction is imminent' that you can find in the Isaiah chapter in 2 Nephi 18:1. My
team loved the name however, and we won so we aren't complaining! I am
really making some great relationships with members.
Our investigators are doing great and we are really
trying to help them progress. We heard from the family that
lives far away and who we gave the blessings to and we are
collaborating to fix an appointment, but things are tough with all these
travels and whatnot. Another miracle happened as we were walking home
after a day of finding work in the rain. I've had the feeling to do zone
t-shirts for all of the Sicilian missionaries, and there is a little
t-shirt printing shop close to our house. We walked past and I thought
that I should just go back a different time because I was tired, but then I
felt pushed to go back. We stood outside the shop reading the signs of
the kinds of prints they do, and the shop owner came out to greet us. I
asked him some questions and he invited us inside, even though they were
about to close. His wife was there and so was their little five year
old daughter. We talked about 'business' a little bit, but then we all
just hit it off and became instant friends and they poured out questions
about the church to us. It turns out that a couple weeks before I tried
stopping the wife, Veronica, on the street but she was busy or
something so didn't have a chance to talk. They are very interested in
the church and said that we can pass by again to share the message of
the Restoration with them!
We are seeing sparks of interest of the Church in
our English course students. We have a few that might become
investigators and our course is so big! We teach sometimes four courses
now with all four of us missionaries taking a different level, and I
love my intermediate students. I have about thirty who show up on a
regular basis, sometimes more. We are all great friends! One guy went to
Paris and got me a little souvenir of the Eiffel tower! Some of the
things I'm most grateful for about the mission are the relationships and
friendships I'm making with people in this wonderful country. I really
hope I'll be able to afford coming back often in the future! You have no
idea how much I love the Italian people.
Things are going great with training and Anziano
Smit is such a stud! We have a lot of fun and we get work done. We were
walking yesterday and there was a man with his dog in the park, and he
had this device that looked like a giant spoon for scooping pasta or
something like that. As we wondered as to what the device was, he placed
a tennis ball inside it and we finally understood as I yelled, "It's a
fetching launcher!" We had a good laugh from that!
As I approach my year
and a half mark I must say that I'm starting to feel this 'tiredness'
that missionaries get towards the end of the mission. Me and Anziano
Longhurst talked a little bit about it with the Kelly's, and they said
that their son that just got back from Argentina just slept for days.
They said that that was how they knew he worked hard.
Here it is for the week! I say this in almost every
email and I'll keep saying it always: I love my mission! I love and
thank you guys for your examples to me, and for your encouraging words
and Spiritually energizing prayers! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I
love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, I love you Greg.
And to anyone else who might read this, family, friends: I love you and
thank you for your support and prayers! Have a great week! Vi voglio
BENONE!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Conferenza Generale è stata bellissima!
Hey guys!
This has been
a long week (in a good way) and it feels like forever since I last
wrote! Things have been going great and I love my new companion, Anziano
Smit from Albuquerque New Mexico! He's the man! He has a very strong
desire to work hard and despite the fact of the new time switch and
being in the mission field he wants to keep going! I have to tell him to
rest a bit! He is so awesome and I feel very blessed to be able to
serve him.
Anziano Smit and Lacey |
My trip to Rome and back was fun! The night bus I
took was a little miserable just because I wasn't able to sleep at all
and there was a very vulgar film playing in the background of it all! I
had so much fun hanging out in the mission home with all the new
missionaries, I met my 'brother' because Anziano Vitali is training
again, and it was great getting some advice from President. It was a
huge surprise to see Anziano Schwing because he has finished and he
wrote me a very touching letter and it is neat to have a best friend in
Germany! It gives me a reason to go visit someday.
Anziani Lacey, Schwing, and Luke |
Everything went very smoothly on the train ride back
down to Sicily and I made sure everyone got to their destinations okay.
I had so much fun with the greenies as they poured questions out to me
and marveled when me and Sorella Sudweeks, the new sister here with us in Siracusa, spoke Italian. We even did a little bit of missionary work
despite the travels and we got a guy's number and gave it as a referral
to the missionaries in Bitonto! We all had a lot of fun and I didn't
sleep at all so by the time we reached Catania I was pretty dead tired
and slept well. Maybe too well because every time I go to Catania I get
eaten alive by mosquitoes and I woke up with a personal mission record
of fifteen bites. Out of ten missionaries in the apartment that night I
was the only one bitten.
Other than that Anziano Smit has been settling in
well. He is doing great with the language for just being at the start,
and our district here in general is so much fun! We have been together a
lot this week watching general conference in English, eating lunch in
between sessions, etc, so we are all becoming great friends and working
well together.
Siracusa District |
Speaking of general conference, I loved it so much!
The talks were all amazing and I feel like I learned something from
every one. President Monson's talk on seeing others as they can become
helped me change how I think when I do missionary work, Elder Nelson's
on asking the missionaries helped me realize the importance and eternal
significance of my calling, Elder Holland's blew me away and helped me
put priorities in order concerning my obedience, loyalty and love for
God, and President Uchtdorf's called me to repentance to live a life
more like the Savior's and not to "wear my busyness as a badge of honor"
but to purposely live and LOVE each day.
I am also so happy about the inspired change to the
missionary age. I can't help to feel somewhat jealous of it, but I am
grateful for the opportunity I had to work, learn, and grow before the
mission. I think this will be a blessing above all to sister
missionaries who wish to serve. To Morgan, Brooke, and Heather, I really
recommend it! Pray to know if it is the right thing and then our Father
in Heaven will open up the doors to what will be best for you in your
life. I know you will receive an answer.
On Sunday night we had the Sunday morning session
playing, and a member brought his cousin and her son who aren't members.
The whole day since Priesthood session, I thought a lot about serving
others and searching ways to serve others. I followed the counsel taught
in conference to pray hard to find good deeds to do that day, and I
didn't expect to receive my answer so quickly. Just to back tract a bit,
this member, Fratello Scamporrino has really liked me since I
remembered his birthday, and so after the session he presented his
cousin, Sabrina, and her son Christian who is twelve. They loved
conference so much and they actually asked us if we could give them a
blessing of comfort. Another member gave Sabrina the blessing, and then
she asked if I could give her son a blessing also. It was a wonderful
experience as I felt the power of the Lord work through me to give this
little boy the words he needed to hear, but most of all the feelings he
needed to feel. After we closed in the name of Jesus Christ, Christian
stood up, turned around, and straightaway reached up to grab my
shoulders and gave me a hug, saying nothing. Tears filled my eyes as I
felt the Savior's love for this young man, and this warm embrace touched
my heart in such a beautiful way. His mother's gratitude also touched
me. I found out that this
time has been obviously very difficult on the family. We got their
number, and they are so excited to hear the message of the Gospel, and
they loved church so much and want to come again this Sunday. They live
about forty-five minutes from Siracusa so we are programming how we can
work with members to get rides to go teach them. What a miracle and a
special moment in my mission, and in my life. Pray hard for them that
they will be protected and will progress in the Gospel.
That wasn't the end to it! After we said goodbye to
them, a member wanted a healing blessing from us! And then after that,
so did his daughter! And then Sister Sudweeks asked me to give
her a blessing too. I have never felt so blessed to be able to serve so
many people, and to give five blessings after such a wonderful day of
hearing the words of prophets. I felt like the luckiest missionary in
the world!
Investigators are doing well, and I'm determined to
be more of an 'inviter'. I like to follow the example of how Peter
taught, that is really bring the Spirit as you teach, and invite them to
be baptised! Right away! There is a lot of power in that, and you can
measure an investigator's progress based on their responses. Last night
we gave a 'soft' invite (asking someone if they would be baptized when
they came to know the truth of these things, without a specific date or
anything) to Riccardo, our twenty year old investigator, and know we
know how we can go about teaching based on his answer, which wasn't yes,
or no.
There's the news for the week! Tonight we go to
Catania because I'm taking a plane up to Rome for zone leader council
early Thursday morning and will be flying back on Friday. I am very
excited! Hanging out in the beautiful mission home with the other ZL's
and President and Sorella Kelly almost sounds like a vacation! I also
get to finally spend twenty-four hours in Rome! I'll let you know how it
all goes. I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I
love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, I love you Greg!
Have a great week and stay safe! Vi voglio un sacco di bene!
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Sono un Babbo!
Buongiorno tutti!
Hey guys! I'm excited to let you know that I am TRAINING! I couldn't be more excited, and I am so grateful for this chance to serve with a new missionary. I have some really exciting news too. I actually have the rare opportunity to go up to Rome and get him! Actually, I'm getting about four greenies and another sister and bringing some down to Sicily, and dropping one off in Catanzaro. So tonight we go to Catania, take an all night bus with five other missionaries to Rome, we'll get there at about six o'clock in the morning, and then we'll meet at the mission home at about seven. There I'll meet my greenie, get other people on their buses, and then take my travel group to the train station where we'll take the train back down to Catania. Basically I'll be traveling for about twenty-four hours straight, but I'm not complaining! I think it will be fun! Anziano Luke made me laugh when he told me about when they ran the plan past President. President said, "Ew, I wouldn't want to make Anziano Lacey do that! That's rough!". Anziano Luke replied and said, "It's okay, he would want to do it!" So I have a fun (little) trip to Rome and back within a day or so. I'm excited for the opportunity to help these new missionaries.
Since today will be a little crazy I don't have a ton of time to write, so I'll be quick:
Wednesday night we played some soccer with some members and English course students. One English course student who is twenty years old is interested in the Gospel, and he actually became a new investigator this week after a lesson we did with him and another member who is about to leave on his mission. Other than that, work has been a little slow with a few lessons here and there with other investigators because transfer weeks are like that. I really do look forward to how things will roll next transfer though. I think we will be very busy, which is a good thing!
We did the 'mostra' proselyting technique again on Sunday night and it went well. We had four members show up to actually help with the work and a lot more that came to say 'ciao' at the end like last time which was nice. I love the members here so much. We have really been pushing hard to invite everyone, English course students, investigators, random people on the street, etc. to come to General Conference. I am so excited and I've been preparing to hear it for weeks now! The mission has really changed my attitude on how I prepare, watch, and put into practice the things I learn in General Conference. What a blessing it is!
Sorella Hicks in my district and who was in my zone back in Sardegna is finishing her mission so we all had a fun lunch together in church after district meeting and I prepared a little training just for her talking about life. She has been a huge example to me of being diligent all the way to the end. Yes, she's tired because she has worked her hardest, and she keeps on seeking improvement to the end.
I can't believe I haven't told you all about Mattia! There is a member family with which we are very close to, and they have a little two year old boy named Mattia who is my best friend! He only knows my name and screams. "Anthiano Lashy!" He is so cute and yesterday we ate lunch with them and his mother told me he waited at the door for more than an hour until we arrived. I'll send you some pics but he's pretty much the cutest kid alive!
That's about it for the week. I'm sorry it's a bit of a short email and not very detailed, but I'll let you know how my little voyage goes! I love you all so much! Thank you for all you do! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have a great and a safe week! Vi voglio una galassia di bene!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Hey guys! I'm excited to let you know that I am TRAINING! I couldn't be more excited, and I am so grateful for this chance to serve with a new missionary. I have some really exciting news too. I actually have the rare opportunity to go up to Rome and get him! Actually, I'm getting about four greenies and another sister and bringing some down to Sicily, and dropping one off in Catanzaro. So tonight we go to Catania, take an all night bus with five other missionaries to Rome, we'll get there at about six o'clock in the morning, and then we'll meet at the mission home at about seven. There I'll meet my greenie, get other people on their buses, and then take my travel group to the train station where we'll take the train back down to Catania. Basically I'll be traveling for about twenty-four hours straight, but I'm not complaining! I think it will be fun! Anziano Luke made me laugh when he told me about when they ran the plan past President. President said, "Ew, I wouldn't want to make Anziano Lacey do that! That's rough!". Anziano Luke replied and said, "It's okay, he would want to do it!" So I have a fun (little) trip to Rome and back within a day or so. I'm excited for the opportunity to help these new missionaries.
Since today will be a little crazy I don't have a ton of time to write, so I'll be quick:
Wednesday night we played some soccer with some members and English course students. One English course student who is twenty years old is interested in the Gospel, and he actually became a new investigator this week after a lesson we did with him and another member who is about to leave on his mission. Other than that, work has been a little slow with a few lessons here and there with other investigators because transfer weeks are like that. I really do look forward to how things will roll next transfer though. I think we will be very busy, which is a good thing!
We did the 'mostra' proselyting technique again on Sunday night and it went well. We had four members show up to actually help with the work and a lot more that came to say 'ciao' at the end like last time which was nice. I love the members here so much. We have really been pushing hard to invite everyone, English course students, investigators, random people on the street, etc. to come to General Conference. I am so excited and I've been preparing to hear it for weeks now! The mission has really changed my attitude on how I prepare, watch, and put into practice the things I learn in General Conference. What a blessing it is!
Sorella Hicks in my district and who was in my zone back in Sardegna is finishing her mission so we all had a fun lunch together in church after district meeting and I prepared a little training just for her talking about life. She has been a huge example to me of being diligent all the way to the end. Yes, she's tired because she has worked her hardest, and she keeps on seeking improvement to the end.
I can't believe I haven't told you all about Mattia! There is a member family with which we are very close to, and they have a little two year old boy named Mattia who is my best friend! He only knows my name and screams. "Anthiano Lashy!" He is so cute and yesterday we ate lunch with them and his mother told me he waited at the door for more than an hour until we arrived. I'll send you some pics but he's pretty much the cutest kid alive!
That's about it for the week. I'm sorry it's a bit of a short email and not very detailed, but I'll let you know how my little voyage goes! I love you all so much! Thank you for all you do! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have a great and a safe week! Vi voglio una galassia di bene!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Hey guys!
Picture of Clay while writing emails this morning... |
This has been another great week and it's
hard to believe that this transfer is almost over. We already get
transfer calls this Saturday and it will be interesting as always to see
what happens. Thank you for you emails and I am so happy that everyone
is doing great.
We have been blessed to find three new investigators
this week and they are all three really amazing people. One guy named
Sergio is a police officer who was a referral from the sisters. They
asked him if he could take a picture for them on a preparation day, he
agreed, and then after they talked to him about the Gospel. We had a
great lesson with him Sunday afternoon and he is a really smart guy. He
is also a martial arts trainer and he is extremely buff - and randomly
taught me how to throw a punch and made me a thirty minute work out
routine to do in the morning. He has a very strong faith in God and we
can definitely expect miracles as we teach him. He is the man!
We really cracked down on English course publicity
and there are so many students that are coming! All three courses,
basic, intermediate, and advanced are packed and we have a lot of fun. I
teach intermediate and the students I have are absolutely fantastic.
After English course we did a spiritual thought, and then invited
everyone to stay for the family home evening that we put on in church
every Tuesday night. It was a miracle because three people stayed! One
from my course that stayed is named Riccardo and we have hit it off
right away. He is my same age and we have a great friendship. For family
home evening there was a spiritual thought, a game, and then a snack
and he really enjoyed it. Talking to him after he said that the things
we talked about weren't different at all to that which he believes, and
then asked the golden question if he could find out more. We set an
appointment for tomorrow night after the English course and we'll play
soccer with him, a few members, less actives, and more contacts tonight.
Miracles!
We had a very special experience happen the other
night. We were walking back home at the close of the day and we walked
past two men who were speaking English and I asked them where they were
from. We started a conversation and it turns out that they are both from
different parts of Africa, but were working in Libya before the chaos
started happening. Now, after this war, they are refugees in Italy. One
guy was very happy and cheerful despite his current situation and
started asking me questions about the Church, but when he asked where I
was from his countenance changed immediately and he shook his head when
he heard America. Now, I don't know exactly what he thinks about us (he
did not say exactly which country he originates from), but from what he
said it hinted at jealousy with the American way of life and our initial
benefits from birth. He vented to me about his problems and his current
situation. I don't want to share all of it, but I felt so bad for this
man that has suffered so much. I listened as tears filled his eyes, and
he spoke with great emotion, and I continued to listen. When he finished
I paused and searched within myself for the words to say. I could feel
the Spirit guide my words as I bore testimony to him of the comforting
power that comes from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I spoke of the
cleansing and healing power of the Atonement, and he listened intently
to the words. After I had finished with my testimony and promised
blessings, he paused, and after a few seconds he smiled and he said,
"You guys are different." He explained how he has gone to many different
churches and that the people there were good with words but that they
lacked something that he found in us. He simply said, "You listen." He
told us that he wanted to know more, that he would come to church, and
he put his hand over his heart, said goodbye to us, and I left with a
strong feeling of gratitude from the Spirit, and new prospective and
love for people in general.
Another instance in which I feel the Savior's love
for a particular individual is when I say hello to an elderly woman who
lives right next to us. Sometimes when we come back home for lunch or
leave to begin working for the day she stands out and waits for us, just
to get a wave from the missionaries. The first time I saw her I just
waved and smiled, but as I continued in my course I felt pushed to turn
around and speak to her. I went over and she had the biggest smile on
her face. It turns out that none of us missionaries has ever actually
walked over to her porch to speak. She was so thankful, and took a
moment to hold onto my hand, and speak to me about her loneliness
because she is all by herself and the fact that I come over to talk to
her really touched her. I then promised to her that I would always come
to her to say hello every chance we could when we passed by. It's hard
to explain, but I know and felt the love the Savior has for this woman,
and her smile reminds me of my calling to be the Lord's representative
here in Siracusa.
With other investigators things are progressing
well. The work is moving foreword, and we are gaining trust of the
members step by step. This transfer feels a bit like a preparation for
something bigger the next transfer, and I'm excited to see how it folds
out after getting the calls this Saturday.
I love you all so much! Have a great week and stay
safe in all that you do. Most importantly, stay close to your Heavenly
Father and really show Him that you love Him with all your heart, might,
mind, and strength. He truly has His hand in our lives and guides us
along. I want to share a video that has really touched me from the
Mormon Messages on lds.org (http://youtu.be/Rr8xvw0cgw0).
We must change our attitudes of trails as opportunities to grow rather
than just a time to wait out as we suffer. We need to understand that
Someone a lot greater, and a lot grander is guiding us. God is the
Gardener.
I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I
love you Brooke, I love you Heather, I love you Greg. Vi voglio tanto,
tanto bene.
Con affetto,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Teatro Greco a Siracusa!
Hey guys!
"When I grow up I want to be a bronze statue" |
Ciao ciao! This has been a great week! We have been
blessed with many miracles and we are excited to see the work grow step
by step! I keep learning so much in this city, about myself, about the
people, and a lot about missionary work. Things continue to go great
right now.
We started a great split with the Anziani from
Messina on Thursday. Me and Anziano Hansen felt that they could really
benefit from this split, and it did indeed go very well. I did the split
with Anziano Giovita, a guy from northern Italy in a city called
Brescia. He really became a great friend and we have so much fun
together, even when talking on the phone for a few minutes for numbers.
Anyways, the highlight of the trip was the
opportunity we had to teach a man named Gabriele that was a referral
from Church headquarters. It turns out that he went to BYU for a year to
learn English and even was brought to the MTC to be taught by
missionaries bound for Italy. Unfortunately his experience at BYU wasn't
the greatest and he didn't feel very welcomed once people found out he
wasn't a member of the Church. He read some of the Book of Mormon, and
he was still fascinated with the Church even though he had some negative
experiences. We had a great first lesson and we really hit it off well.
He might come down to Siracusa or close by just to visit us next week!
In the English course taught by the Messina Anziani there is a lady that
is an anesthesiologist and we talked a lot about her profession.
On Friday we finally got back to Siracusa and
finished some errands we needed to do. We had three appointments
planned, and our great member friend Oscar who has his mission call to
England was taking us around and was going to come to the lessons with
us. We hit a record of cancelled appointments! Three in one hour! When
an appointment falls through, the person isn't home, or doesn't show up
we call it a 'bidone'. It means trashcan or something like that. We
didn't let it get us down and we laughed it off with Oscar.
We were very blessed on Sunday night. There is a
proselyting tool that missionaries have used here in Italy called a
'mostra'. It's basically like setting up a giant sign with pictures and
scriptures about the Gospel in the middle of a busy place in a city and
talking to people on the street. I have been somewhat against trying it
on my mission, but a member got the permission from the city council for
us to do it so we did. We found HUGE success, especially with two
families that we talked to. One in particular I feel is really prepared
to hear the Gospel. We finished off this 'mostra' with a big group of
our members all doing a Sunday walk around the island part of Siracusa
called Ortigia. We had a lot of fun with them, and the cool part about
where we did 'mostra' was exactly where Paul taught outside the Temple
of Apollo! It was a pretty sweet experience.
Mostra |
On Monday we were walking down the street and a
twenty year old guy named Marco who met with the missionaries a few
years ago stopped us. He told us that his father had just died about
three weeks ago and that he is having a rough time knowing about what
lies ahead after this life. We set an appointment with him for that
night and we hope that the things we taught him helped him feel more
confident and at peace. We have another appointment with him and we will
keep stressing the truth of eternal families. He needs our prayers!
That night we and the sisters put on a great dinner
with the ward missionaries and other leaders of the church where we
discussed missionary work, how we can inspire the ward to do more
missionary work, and to reach out to less-actives. It went well and we
hope that this ward will really have an excitement to share the Gospel
with their friends.
Tuesday was a big day and we had a great zone
conference. The trainings went well and we discussed a lot about
sacrifices. We made the point that when we are refused, cursed at, and
turned away, we have the privilege to suffer like the Savior suffered.
Think about it, He was a perfect Teacher, yet most didn't listen. As
Elder Holland said, if it was never easy for Him, why should it ever be
easy for us to do this work? Salvation is not a cheap experience, and in
order to gain it we need to "have a moment in Gethsemane" and "take a
step toward Calvary". It would never be anything close to the amount to
what Christ suffered of course, but I look at it as a privilege, like I
said, to know how He felt. It puts things on a different perspective,
lightens this 'yoke' upon us, and helps us realize what it means to take
upon ourselves this 'cross' like is mentioned in Matthew 16:24. Another
thought, if you think about it the Gospel is the answer to everything.
Absolutely everything. You can take any problem this world has ever
faced, is facing, and will face, and the answer and solution to it is
simply the Gospel of Jesus Christ. The secret to it is sacrifice. We
can't imagine the blessings waiting for us when we sacrifice for the
Lord.
Therefore keep in mind: The Gospel is the answer.
Sacrifice is the secret. "Il Vangelo è la risposta. Il segreto è il
sacrificio."
Unfortunately President Kelly
wasn't at this zone conference. In his whole mission this is the only
one he missed because he wasn't feeling well at all, and he listened to
his wife and companion when she said he should stay home (he had been
flying back and forth and doing meetings and stake conferences with
Elder Nelson of the Twelve... It would be great to be in Rome right
now)! I witnessed something truly amazing and a miracle as I could say
the least. Sister Kelly completely followed the Spirit and gave
President Kelly's training exactly how he would have done it. Us as
missionaries really look forward to what President will say to us to get
us pumped and energized with the work, and Sister Kelly just rocked it.
I could do nothing but thank her after.
It was so much fun seeing other missionaries,
especially Anziano Luke like always! Today we've had a great preparation
day. The sisters from Ragusa and Mistretta were here including the guys
from Gela and we had a blast. Anziano Green is in Gela right now and we
are so happy that we've been following each other around on the
mission. We are really great friends and I'm so glad he lives close
(Redlands area). We went to an ancient Greek theater, a Roman
amptheater, prison, and other amazing historical sites. I love Italy!!!
Ancient Greek Theater - Siricusa, Sicily, Italy 9/19/12 |
Ancient Greek Theater - Siricusa, Sicily, Italy 9/19/12 |
That's the sum up of the week! Things are going
great and I love the mission so much. I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I
love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you
Greg. Have a great week and stay safe! You all are the best! Vi voglio
tanto bene! Ciao!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Carissima Famiglia Mia!!!
Cara famiglia,
Piazza del Duomo in Siracusa |
World War II Bomb Shelter |
Ciao tutti! Hey guys! It sounds like things are great with everyone
and I am so glad! That is so awesome that Morgan got to meet Elder
Holland and President Uchtdorf. I am so jealous, but happy for you! I am
watching his talk he gave on lds.org
and it is amazing. He tells it how it is: "You NEVER check your
religion at the door!" Boom! He is the man. I love reading and watching
the CES firesides. I am doing so good here and I feel like I've been
learning a lot. That is one of the best parts about the mission is just
having the opportunity to learn, grow, and grow closer to the Lord. It
has been a great week so I'll tell you all about it!
On Thursday I did a split with Anziano Hansen that went very well.
Our time was filled mostly with appointments and they have a few
investigators that are making some great progress. For example we taught
the Restoration to a twelve year old boy who has a baptismal date, and
also his mother who was just invited to be baptized and know has a date.
We saw a few other contacts and I learned a lot from Anziano Hansen who
is a stud!
The work is moving along in Siracusa. We still are spending most of
our time with finding, but we have two investigators that are making
some pretty good progress, the only problem being that we cannot meet
with them more than once a week usually. Unfortunately we have also lost
some investigators that weren't interested anymore, which is always a
bummer, but there are always new people to find and help.
We had a lot of fun on Saturday. Usually I try to avoid activities
that would take up whole days, but thanks to one of these kinds of ward
activities we met Ignazio Mazzone who got baptized back in Olbia.
Therefore when our ward had this activity planned to go up into the
mountains to a park with rope courses and ziplines I obviously was
excited and didn't refuse the invite. Our members are good at inviting
friends to activities.
As we were leaving in the morning, the car we happened to be in
broke down about halfway down the road which was a ton of fun, and then
someone else came along to get us. There were a lot of people there and
they were so excited that we came. We even made a great friendship with a
less-active mother who is against the church and doesn't want her
daughter and son who are well past baptizing age to join the church.
Hopefully this little friendship will spark a miracles for their family
to begin the healing process and have a new start. In the end, I love
zip-lines! Too much fun!
I am glad for a little assignment I was given to teach the young
men for the next few weeks. There is a young man here who is twenty and
has his mission call to England and is just awesome. He always wants to
go out and do splits with us. Anyways, his younger brother who is
eighteen doesn't want to serve a mission, so we want to kind of inspire
him a bit, but it's tough because their dad is less-active and of little
support.
We have been doing a lot of publicity for our English course and
have restarted it. We have some great students and I am really excited
because I'm sure we are going to have a lot of fun together. We'll see
if we can organize some soccer games here in a bit! Another one of my
favorite things here in Siracusa is the Family Home Evening that the
ward puts on every Tuesday night. It is a great way to have
investigators make friendships with the members.
That's about it for the events of this week! Things are going good,
and we are really working hard. We're expecting miracles and we are
sure to see the fruits of our labors here soon. The beautiful thing is
that you don't always realize how much you benefit an area until you
leave it or hear about it later. For example, in Trapani another
investigator I found and taught with Simonetta has a baptismal date. In
Olbia, a referral from the Tache family was just baptized, and Nina
moved to France or something where she can finally get baptized. It's
cool to see how things work and how it's all the Lord's work, and we are
just instruments in His hands.
I love you all so much! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you
Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg. Have
a great week! I love and miss you all so much! Christmas is coming up
here soon it feels like where we can Skype again! Can't wait! Vi voglio
tanto tanto bene!
Un abbraccio grande!
Anziano Clay Lacey
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Una bella settimana a Siracusa!
Dear Family,
Hey guys! We had a great preparation day this morning and we went to a really famous museum here in Siracusa that has a ton of ancient artifacts that they've found here in Sicily throughout the ages. My favorite exhibits of course were the ancient Greek and Ancient Roman ones.
There were lots of sweet statues, vases, art,
building pieces, money, armor, weapons, and all of those things I loved
as a kid when I was study Greek and Roman mythology. It feels like
little boyhood dreams are being fulfilled or something.
There is so much history here in Siracusa and I can't even believe it! It never gets old walking past ancient temples and tombs amongst Renaissance style urban areas. I love Italy!
A lot of finding work payed off and we ended up receiving three new investigators last week. One of them is atheist, but it's really interesting what he told us yesterday in our second lesson. He broke the news to us that he is atheist, but he thinks he is wrong about his beliefs. He said he is atheist because God has never communicated with him, but he is willing to try to create a relationship with him. This is perfect! All we need to do is help him recognize the Lord's hand in his life, and he is already starting his part by reading and he said his first prayer with us yesterday. We hope to see him in church this week!
Another new investigator is such a great guy, but he has some depression problems. The great thing though is that after our first appointment his whole countenance changed and he left with a smile on his face. We brought a member with us for the next lesson and he gave the investigator some great advice as to what he can do to become happier. We actually ended up setting a baptismal date in October so let's hope he can really see the positive influence of the Gospel in his life.
Church was great again and the young men's president (who I think is the only one over the young men in the ward) has asked me to teach the young men for the next month because he is getting married in Napoli, going to Switzerland to be sealed, and then doing his honeymoon so he'll be a bit busy. I love the young men here and we have fun and joke around a lot. One kid wants to teach me to play the guitar!
Well I have some great news! Sergio from Trapani, the man who I was teaching got baptized last weekend! We were too busy and I figured it would be best to stay in my city so we didn't go see it, but I got permission to call him Monday morning. He was so surprised to hear from me and he was so happy. He kept telling me that it was the most beautiful experience of his life and how he really feels now that he is a child of God. We were both in tears as we talked, and I felt some of that joy again that the prophet promised me when I got my call letter. The best kind of 'thank you's' that bring the most satisfaction I've ever received have been here in the mission. I am so grateful for the chance I had to start teaching Sergio Valenti, and to hear his happiness for the covenants he made with the Lord.
It started raining like crazy one day this week, and we were in church waiting for two investigators to teach. They didn't show up so we decided that we needed to run home to grab another umbrella, because we only had my little one and my companion didn't bring his. The storm was pretty crazy so when it died down we left, but nearly as soon as we left the rain pounded down even harder than it had before, and we both got soaked from head to toe despite trying to share my little umbrella. One street we needed to cross was flooded and when we stepped in it to cross it was halfway up my shin. We decided to just run as fast as we could home, and we were laughing the whole way. It would have been a pretty funny scene to see!
That's the week! Things are going great and we are still trying hard to find new investigators and to fill our time with teaching. This week I'll go to Catania for a day and then Messina the next week for splits before zone conference. I'll let you all know how things go! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg! Keep up the great work with all that you are doing and remember to always stay close to the Lord! Love you all tons! Vi voglio tanto bene!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
Hey guys! We had a great preparation day this morning and we went to a really famous museum here in Siracusa that has a ton of ancient artifacts that they've found here in Sicily throughout the ages. My favorite exhibits of course were the ancient Greek and Ancient Roman ones.
There is so much history here in Siracusa and I can't even believe it! It never gets old walking past ancient temples and tombs amongst Renaissance style urban areas. I love Italy!
A lot of finding work payed off and we ended up receiving three new investigators last week. One of them is atheist, but it's really interesting what he told us yesterday in our second lesson. He broke the news to us that he is atheist, but he thinks he is wrong about his beliefs. He said he is atheist because God has never communicated with him, but he is willing to try to create a relationship with him. This is perfect! All we need to do is help him recognize the Lord's hand in his life, and he is already starting his part by reading and he said his first prayer with us yesterday. We hope to see him in church this week!
Another new investigator is such a great guy, but he has some depression problems. The great thing though is that after our first appointment his whole countenance changed and he left with a smile on his face. We brought a member with us for the next lesson and he gave the investigator some great advice as to what he can do to become happier. We actually ended up setting a baptismal date in October so let's hope he can really see the positive influence of the Gospel in his life.
Church was great again and the young men's president (who I think is the only one over the young men in the ward) has asked me to teach the young men for the next month because he is getting married in Napoli, going to Switzerland to be sealed, and then doing his honeymoon so he'll be a bit busy. I love the young men here and we have fun and joke around a lot. One kid wants to teach me to play the guitar!
Well I have some great news! Sergio from Trapani, the man who I was teaching got baptized last weekend! We were too busy and I figured it would be best to stay in my city so we didn't go see it, but I got permission to call him Monday morning. He was so surprised to hear from me and he was so happy. He kept telling me that it was the most beautiful experience of his life and how he really feels now that he is a child of God. We were both in tears as we talked, and I felt some of that joy again that the prophet promised me when I got my call letter. The best kind of 'thank you's' that bring the most satisfaction I've ever received have been here in the mission. I am so grateful for the chance I had to start teaching Sergio Valenti, and to hear his happiness for the covenants he made with the Lord.
It started raining like crazy one day this week, and we were in church waiting for two investigators to teach. They didn't show up so we decided that we needed to run home to grab another umbrella, because we only had my little one and my companion didn't bring his. The storm was pretty crazy so when it died down we left, but nearly as soon as we left the rain pounded down even harder than it had before, and we both got soaked from head to toe despite trying to share my little umbrella. One street we needed to cross was flooded and when we stepped in it to cross it was halfway up my shin. We decided to just run as fast as we could home, and we were laughing the whole way. It would have been a pretty funny scene to see!
That's the week! Things are going great and we are still trying hard to find new investigators and to fill our time with teaching. This week I'll go to Catania for a day and then Messina the next week for splits before zone conference. I'll let you all know how things go! I love you Dad, I love you Mom, I love you Morgan, I love you Brooke, I love you Heather, and I love you Greg! Keep up the great work with all that you are doing and remember to always stay close to the Lord! Love you all tons! Vi voglio tanto bene!
Con amore,
Anziano Clay Lacey
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